Sounds like you're getting close hulk. Will you please post pics of the breather line setup once you get it installed?
Here's my breather setup on a 58mm S&S Stealth air filter using the stock H-D breather bolts and 7/32 I.D. rubber tubing:
I routed the hose all the way back to the bottom of the rear fender behind the tire:
Basically nothing to see with the gas tank and filter cover in place: